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Saturday, March 14, 2026

Generational Child Abuse And Cult Christianities

Generational Child Abuse And Cult Christianities

Jesus said to Love Your Creator, Love Other People, Love Yourself
Matthew 22:37-40

If you love yourself, but do not not love others, you can become an abuser.

If you love others, but do not not love yourself, and set boundaries, limits, while loving other people, you can easily become a used and abused doormat.

While rewarding, and so encouraging abusers, to keep on abusing.
Only reward good behaviour, not bad.


Abusers

All sorts of people, atheists, agnostics, religious, can be abusive.

Religions, add another layer to the abuse, by claiming they have a god-given right to be abusive. And guilt you in to agreeing with them.

If they are claiming to be Christian, your can escape this religious abuse, by reading what Jesus really said about religion, and forming a direct spiritual friendship with Jesus.


Generational Child Abuse

In Generational Child Abuse, abuse becomes normalised, and not even thought of as abuse.

Usually, in dysfunctional abusive families, the father has anger management issues; the mother is an anxiety ridden wreck; and the children are repressed and depressed.

Sometimes, it is the mother who has anger management issues, and the father is anxiety ridden.

Generation after generation, these families go on to raise depressed repressed children, who go on to be the next generation of angry fathers and anxious mothers, raising their own depressed repressed children.


Animal Abuse

And, all along it can go out sideways as animal abuse.

The father hits the mother, who screams at the kids, who go out and kick the dog.

Even more complicatedly, the repressed children can seek solace with animals, but since the only way they know how to relate, is what they have copied, even unconsciously copied, from their abusive parents, instead of learning from the animal, they abuse the animal.


Escaping The Cycle

Decide you do not want to pass it on, to the next generation, by abusing your children or animals.

Learn how to relate in non-abusive ways.

Find better role models than your parents.

Watch how other people, teachers, kids at school, handle situations.

Learn from them.


Unfortunately, often the ones with the biggest messed-up lives, will the one most likely to tell you what to do.

Only, listen to those who know, and show in their own lives, they know.


Blasphemy

Abusers are everywhere, but misogynist Christians add another layer to abuse, misogynist Christian blasphemy.

Christian Blasphemy, is using the good name of Jesus, as a cover for doing evil.


Read What Jesus Really Said

Jesus warned against abusing children.

Warned against lording it over people.

Warned against hypocrisy.


Jesus Warning Abusive Parents

Matthew 18:6, But if anyone causes one of these little ones who believe in Me to stumble, it would be better for him to have a large millstone hung around his neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea.

Matthew 18:7, Woe to the world for the causes of sin. These stumbling blocks must come, but woe to the man through whom they come!

Woe to abusive parents who turn their children into atheists or towards other religions.


Service Leadership

Matthew 20:25, But Jesus called them aside and said, “You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their superiors exercise authority over them.

Matthew 20:26, It shall not be this way among you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant,

Matthew 20:27, and whoever wants to be first among you must be your slave - 

Matthew 20:28, just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many.”

Jesus said, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, not lord it over you; just as Jesus came serve, not to be served.

So, if your husband wants to be the Head of the Household, tell him to start serving you.


Judgemental Hypocrites

Matthew 7:3, Why do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye but fail to notice the beam in your own eye?

Matthew 7:4, How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ while there is still a beam in your own eye?

Matthew 7:5, You hypocrite! First take the beam out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.

Have you ever noticed that, the people most likely to interfere with your life, are often the people who most need to improve their own lives.

Maybe, the speck they see in your eye, is a reflection of the beam in their own eye.


What To Do

Even when you know what to do; and, decide that is what you will do; you can still relapse back into old habits.

If you are the abusive father, get over it, stand up to your abusive father, or let the matter drop, do not pass your abuse on to your children, the next generation.

If you are the anxious mother, constantly excusing and apologising, for you abusive husband.

Stand up to your husband.

If not for your own sake, then for the sake of your children.

And, your children’s, children.

Do you really want your children abused?

Your grandchildren abused?

Because you were too much of a coward to protect your own children.

Something that mammals, who have never read the gospels. instinctively do.

If you are the child.

Wait until you are big enough.

Then stand up to your abuser.

When you are financially independent, leave.

Do not let them victim-blame you, and guilt-trip you, into blaming yourself.


Read The Gospels

Read, what Jesus really said about child abuse, lording it over people, hypocrisy.

To defend yourself, against their blasphemy.


Similarly, With Cult Christianities

Read, Matthew 23, for what Jesus said about the abusive religion of his time.

Form a spiritual friendship with Jesus to escape from their Cult Christianity and religious abuse.


Cult Christianities Block The Way To Heaven

Matthew 23:13, Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You shut the Kingdom of Heaven in men’s faces. You yourselves do not enter, nor will you let in those who wish to enter.

Cult Christianities, block the way to the Kingdom of Heaven, and abuse and make people, men, women, and children, miserable.


Cult Christianities Make More And More Man-Made Rules To Make Life Hard For People

Matthew 23:4, They tie up heavy, burdensome loads and lay them on men’s shoulders, but they themselves are not willing to lift a finger to move them.

You do not have to keep their man-made rules.


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